The best dating sites and apps for hooking up

Do you need to sign up for a dating app?

We’re not saying you can’t find love in the real world, because meeting in bars, clubs, parks, and other romantic locations still happens on a regular basis. You’re just shortening your odds by subscribing to a dating site. Why not give yourself the best chance of success? It just makes sense.

Dating sites and apps allow you to get your information out there to a massive network of like-minded individuals. Plus, you can save a lot of time, energy, and cash by testing out a potential relationship on an app before actually meeting. We know that some dating apps can be expensive, but just think about all those wasted coffees you could avoid by chatting through an app first.

Lastly, using dating apps and sites is a whole lot less intimidating than meeting someone face to face. If you find the idea of meeting people slightly terrifying, these apps can help you dip your toe into the world of dating from the comfort of your own home.

Should you consider free dating apps?

There are a lot of free dating sites and apps out there, and the likes of REAL SEX CONTACTS and SECRET AFFAIRS are seriously popular options with massive networks of users. Plus, most of the biggest and best dating sites have free versions with limitations on certain features. So yes, you can easily enter the online dating game without spending anything. There are levels to this game though, and sometimes free apps just don’t cut it.

This won’t be a surprise to hear, but you get what you pay for with dating sites and apps. For the best experience with the greatest possibility of finding exactly what you’re looking for, you are going to have to cough up the cash. We’re sorry to break it to you, but the best dating sites don’t come cheap.


1. Longer penises don’t necessarily help women reach orgasm.
With respect to penis size, bigger isn’t always better, at least when it comes to women’s ability to reach orgasm. A 2012 study from The Journal of Sexual Medicine reported that a longer than average penis does not increase the likelihood of orgasm for most women. In a different study, when asked to select the ideal penis size for a partner, most women choose a size that was only slightly above average.

2. Multiple orgasms are real, and most women can probably have them.
After reaching orgasm, most men experience a refractory period, a length of time during which no additional orgasms are possible, regardless of how much stimulation is provided. This period can last anywhere from several minutes to several hours and makes multiple orgasms a rarity in men (although some research suggests that guys may be able to teach themselves to become multiply orgasmic).

By contrast, most women lack a refractory period and can enter another orgasm without much (or any) delay, as long as sexual stimulation continues. More than half a century ago, Masters and Johnson documented multiple orgasms in women, reporting that many “enjoy a minimum of three of four orgasmic experiences” during sexual activity.

3. Some women ejaculate upon reaching orgasm.
Everyone knows that ejaculation and orgasm usually go together for men (although it is technically possible for men to orgasm without ejaculating and vice versa); however, many women also appear to be capable of ejaculatory orgasms.

Different types of female ejaculation have been documented, with some women experiencing the release of a small amount of a milkier fluid (more comparable in amount and appearance to male ejaculate), with other women experiencing a larger expulsion of a watery fluid (often referred to as “squirting”).

Female ejaculation is something scientists are still learning about. It is also becoming an increasingly popular category of porn.

4. Women can reach orgasm in many ways, not just through vaginal penetration.
Many women can reach orgasm solely from penile penetration of the vagina, However, that’s hardly the only form of sexual stimulation linked to female orgasm. A large number of women report having reached orgasm through clitoral stimulation, some through stimulation of the breasts and nipples, and a few through stimulation of the cervix.

What accounts for all of these potential routes to orgasm? A 2011 neuroimaging study from The Journal of Sexual Medicine found that stimulation of the vagina, clitoris, nipple, and cervix all activated a region of the brain known as the genital sensory cortex. In light of this, it is perhaps not surprising that stimulation of so many different body parts can be pleasurable to women.

5. The female orgasm isn’t just about physical stimulation.
There are certain physical acts that can increase the odds of a woman reaching orgasm during a given sexual experience, such as receiving oral sex; However, there’s a big psychological component to the female orgasm as well.

For instance, women who have strong feelings of affection for a casual sex partner are more likely to reach orgasm than women who lack such feelings. Women who report intense physical attraction to a partner are more likely to reach orgasm, too.

Psychological factors such as these can also play a role in men’s orgasms, but men’s orgasms seem to be less dependent upon them. Indeed, most guys report that they almost always reach orgasm during sex, whereas women’s orgasmic experiences are far more variable.

A word of caution: the above facts don’t constitute everything you should know about female sexual pleasure and orgasm, but they’re a good start.

How to attract women on REAL SEX CONTACT

Women will be Deeply Attracted to You

When you create a meaningful connection with a woman, she won’t just think you’re “nice.”

And she won’t just “like” you.

No, it’ll be much more than that….

She will really like you intimately and romantically, in an emotional gut-level kind of way.

(That means no getting thrown in to the friend-zone)

She might want a relationship with you, a passionate hookup with you, or anything in-between.

Basically, she will be deeply attracted to you.

And sometimes that attraction means SHE chases YOU for dates and hookups.


A deep connection is what makes women think of you first – before every other guy.

You’ll Have More Fun Dating

For a lot of guys the outcome of dating is great (hookups, girlfriends, etc.), but the actual process of dating sucks: Finding, meeting, and attracting women is the “hard” part.

The process feels like a battle. Like a war.

Here’s the thing: When you can create a meaningful connection with women all this changes instantly. There is no “hard” part. There is no war.

Instead of feeling like a soldier battling to win against a REAL SEX CONTACTS enemy that’s trying to kill you, you feel like an explorer who’s always on an adventure. Every journey is an exciting one that takes you somewhere worthwhile.

Put simply, when you’re creating meaningful connections then the entire dating process is just as fun as the outcome. Not to mention, you also make it 10x more enjoyable for every woman you interact with.



Making connections will help you have fun dating while still being a complete f*cking gentleman.

You’ll Feel Happier Every Day

Remember when you were a kid trying to get to sleep on Christmas Eve?

Deep inside of you was that special feeling of “I can’t wait for tomorrow.”

This kind of happiness and excitement is the same when you have a connection with a girl.

For example…

When you have a bad day at work, imagine being able to go home to an amazing girlfriend who’s waiting for you.

Wouldn’t that make you feel better?

And those boring weekends when you do the same old thing… Imagine how different you’d feel if you could hookup with an exciting, adventurous woman every Saturday night.

A meaningful connection can really make you feel happier every day.

And not to forget, when you connect with women, they feel the exact same excitement for YOU.

Now you know what a connection can do for you, let’s get into it so you can experience it all for yourself JOIN REAL SEX CONTACTS FOR FREE NOW.

Saucy Secrets To Sexting

With quick communication at our fingertips, via our mobile phones. It comes as no surprise that Sexting plays a big role in spicing things up in our relationships.

Wheter you have been in a relationship for a while or you’re just starting something new, sending flirty, dirty messages is a great way to start the foreplay before you even get your hands on each other.

While getting straight to the point and telling your partner what you want to do to them or them to do to you is great, why not make it even more fun with emojis?

Below is our ultimate guide to dirty emojis

1. Eggplant

Do I even need to spell this one out? The purple veggie symbolizes a penis—a well-endowed one, at that.

2. Peach

”Oh my, what a peachy butt you have”

3. Tongue

A sexting must-have, for so many different occasions. It conveys, “I want to lick your [insert noun here].”

4. Sweat Droplets

This one can mean a number of things but they all essentially boil down to one thing: bodily fluids.

5. Taco

A vagina. In particular, one that you should stuff (possibly with meat, as pictured). Ya know, like, now.

6. Fire

When you’re super attracted to your partner, the flame emoji tells them that they’re so hot, they’re on fire.

7.Camera with Flash

An image to accompany the world’s most respectful chat up line, “send me a pic babe”.

8. Hot Dog

Sausage in a bun…obviously anal sex!

9. Drooling Face

“I’m so turned on, I’m drooling over here.” Or, a little more X-rated: your post-BJ face.

10. Smirking Face

The “I want to fuck you” face.

11. Cancer Zodiac Sign

Come on! It’s clearly signals the 69 position.

12. Finger Pointing Up

Do you like being fingered? (You should…) Use this particular hand emoji when you want your partner to get frisky with just their finger. Feel free to pair it with the taco…or peach, if you dare.

13. Smiling Devil

“I’m horny.” But also, devilish…or a freak in the sheets.

14. Explosion

Mind-blowing, earth-shattering sex, right this way.

15. Shushing Face

“Shh…this convo is so NSFW, let’s keep it private.”

16. Face with Halo

”Who me? I would never do such naughty things” *wink wink*

17. Pointing Right + Ok Hand

Do I really need to explain this one? Insersion of Penis/Dildo/Strap-on into the Vagina or Anus!

18. Fireworks

As close to an orgasm as an emoji can get. Simple, but effective.

What are your favourite emjois when sexting? Let us know in the commetns below.


Anyone else feel trapped texting someone new?

Whenever I match with a new guy on MATURE SEX MATCH and I like him enough to give him my number so we can talk through texting I always feel like I’m trapped doing it. Like all my attention has to be on texting and if I don’t respond after a certain amount of time he’ll lose interest, think I’m not interested, etc. so it holds me back from doing things I need to get done if a guy is texting me.

I could really like him and have this be my issue, I’m just not a fan of texting even if it’s an enjoyable conversation. I’m going on a date with him (which I’m nervous af about) and I feel like if I like him and want to get to know him more and slowly become comfortable seeing him I won’t be such a nervous texter and feel so trapped.

So I dread having him text me or even me starting conversations because I feel like it’s taking up my time to get things done because I’ll feel bad if I don’t respond in x amount of time.


These are the best sex apps for no strings attached sex, but would you use one?

THE definitive guide to no strings sex apps. You’re welcome.

The best sex apps, whatever you’re looking for…

The best online dating sites have survived the test of time, and many of us are guilty of a Sunday night swipe session when The Fear still hasn’t passed and Monday Dread kicks in. But instead of the traditional drinks-and-a-movie hook up, more and more of us are downloading the best sex apps that promise no strings sex. We all know REAL SEX CONTACTS is notorious for being one of the best sex apps out there, but it isn’t the only one.


Here’s our full edit of the best sex apps to help you find the ideal Netflix and chill buddy, or to practice the best sex positions with.


It’s fairly new, so you might not find as many potential partners as the original apps – but give it time. The concept is fun and gives you the opportunity to match people you might not usually swipe right for.


Popular with young professionals (we came across a mix of 20-something chefs, builders, students, musicians and lawyers) who aren’t shy when it comes to no-strings sex.



Definitely helps you on your no strings sex quest, but be warned – one man’s profile picture was of a photo of his erect penis. Nice.


Good for couples or f*** buddies who want to spice things up in a safe way.


10 Oral Sex Tips to Make It More Enjoyable for Everyone.

1. Consent Is The Most Important Thing, Period.

Before you get down to anything, it’s important to remember the golden rule: No sex without consent. Yes, even oral sex. Some people are just flat-out uninterested in receiving, or giving, oral sex — and that’s completely fine. It’s important to respect your partner’s wishes above all else. So no pushing heads down and no begging. If the answer is no, respect it and move on.

2. Have A Conversation Before.

The best time to have a chat about what you like and dislike about sex, oral or penetrative, is before sex — when your clothes are still on. This allows you and your partner to have a discussion that isn’t coercive or cloaked in any kind of pressure. Go over what you like, what you dislike, any fantasies you’re interested in, or anything that is an absolute no-go. That way, when you guys are in the heat of the moment, everyone knows the rules.

3. Don’t Be Ashamed Of Inexperience.

It’s totally fine to not know what you like or to not know how to have oral sex. In fact, some of the most satisfying sexual experiences are exploratory ones. Be open to one another about your experience, so that everyone can be on the same page. And don’t feel like you have to dive in to the deep end right off the bat.

4. Start Slow.

Especially if you’re new, or you’re the one who is giving the oral. It’s hard for us to respond to direct, intense stimuli right off the bat. So tickle and tease a little bit. Maybe lick the head of your partner’s penis before you take him fully into your mouth. Or use your fingers on your partner’s clit before you start licking and sucking. Slow and steady wins every race — even when it comes to sex.

5. Listen And Look For Non-Verbal Cues.

Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, it can be hard for the person receiving the oral sex to speak up about what they’re feeling. That’s why it’s so important for the person giving the oral to listen and look for non-verbal cues. If your partner looks fearful or uncomfortable, stop and ask if they’re enjoying themselves, and then reassess from there. But if they’re moaning or breathing heavily? Keep doing what you’re doing.

6. Use Your Hands, Too.

If your partner has a penis, work their shaft in tandem with your mouth sucking on their head. It creates a longer surface of stimulation, which can be incredibly tantalizing to some. If your partner has a clit and a vulva, don’t be afraid to rub their clit with your thumb in between sucks. Or, insert a few fingers into their vagina while you’re sucking their clit, and massage their g-spot. It’s the spongy membrane on the inside of their vagina, directly under the mons. Use two fingers in a come-hither motion to slowly work this sensitive spot.

7. Moisture Is Your Friend.

Whether it be spit or lubricant, use a lot of it. Nothing kills the mood like sandpaper friction during sex.

8. Don’t Forget To Add Some Variety.

No one like the same movement over and over again. So, once your partner is properly worked up, change your technique a bit. Take your partner’s penis deeply into your throat (if you’re comfortable) and then quickly change to short, head-centric sucking. If your partner has a clitoris, alternate between tickling the sensitive spot with the tip of your tongue and sucking it. These variations in technique make for a seriously toe-curling experience.

9. Don’t Be Afraid To Give Directions.

Any partner who you have going down on you should be a partner you trust to take your directions as an adult — period. So don’t be afraid to tell your partner if something just isn’t working for you. You can do this in a sexy way so as not to break the mood. “Suck a little bit harder, baby” sounds better than “You’re not sucking hard enough.”

10. Remember — Orgasm Is Not The Goal.

In general, we all tend to be a little orgasm-obsessed. Oral sex is a great way to pleasure your partner without worrying about getting them off. So focus on the journey, and not the destination. Oral sex shouldn’t be a race to the finish, after all. Use it as a way to learn about your partner’s pleasure — and your own. It will make for a much more delightful experience. And if you do orgasm? Well, that’s just a cherry on top.