Anyone else feel trapped texting someone new?

Whenever I match with a new guy on MATURE SEX MATCH and I like him enough to give him my number so we can talk through texting I always feel like I’m trapped doing it. Like all my attention has to be on texting and if I don’t respond after a certain amount of time he’ll lose interest, think I’m not interested, etc. so it holds me back from doing things I need to get done if a guy is texting me.

I could really like him and have this be my issue, I’m just not a fan of texting even if it’s an enjoyable conversation. I’m going on a date with him (which I’m nervous af about) and I feel like if I like him and want to get to know him more and slowly become comfortable seeing him I won’t be such a nervous texter and feel so trapped.

So I dread having him text me or even me starting conversations because I feel like it’s taking up my time to get things done because I’ll feel bad if I don’t respond in x amount of time.

 

These are the best sex apps for no strings attached sex, but would you use one?

THE definitive guide to no strings sex apps. You’re welcome.

The best sex apps, whatever you’re looking for…

The best online dating sites have survived the test of time, and many of us are guilty of a Sunday night swipe session when The Fear still hasn’t passed and Monday Dread kicks in. But instead of the traditional drinks-and-a-movie hook up, more and more of us are downloading the best sex apps that promise no strings sex. We all know REAL SEX CONTACTS is notorious for being one of the best sex apps out there, but it isn’t the only one.

 

Here’s our full edit of the best sex apps to help you find the ideal Netflix and chill buddy, or to practice the best sex positions with.

BRITISH MATURE SEX

It’s fairly new, so you might not find as many potential partners as the original apps – but give it time. The concept is fun and gives you the opportunity to match people you might not usually swipe right for.

BRITISH SEX FINDER

Popular with young professionals (we came across a mix of 20-something chefs, builders, students, musicians and lawyers) who aren’t shy when it comes to no-strings sex.

REAL BRITISH SEX

 

Definitely helps you on your no strings sex quest, but be warned – one man’s profile picture was of a photo of his erect penis. Nice.

AVAILABLE FOR SEX

Good for couples or f*** buddies who want to spice things up in a safe way.

 

10 Oral Sex Tips to Make It More Enjoyable for Everyone.

1. Consent Is The Most Important Thing, Period.

Before you get down to anything, it’s important to remember the golden rule: No sex without consent. Yes, even oral sex. Some people are just flat-out uninterested in receiving, or giving, oral sex — and that’s completely fine. It’s important to respect your partner’s wishes above all else. So no pushing heads down and no begging. If the answer is no, respect it and move on.

2. Have A Conversation Before.

The best time to have a chat about what you like and dislike about sex, oral or penetrative, is before sex — when your clothes are still on. This allows you and your partner to have a discussion that isn’t coercive or cloaked in any kind of pressure. Go over what you like, what you dislike, any fantasies you’re interested in, or anything that is an absolute no-go. That way, when you guys are in the heat of the moment, everyone knows the rules.

3. Don’t Be Ashamed Of Inexperience.

It’s totally fine to not know what you like or to not know how to have oral sex. In fact, some of the most satisfying sexual experiences are exploratory ones. Be open to one another about your experience, so that everyone can be on the same page. And don’t feel like you have to dive in to the deep end right off the bat.

4. Start Slow.

Especially if you’re new, or you’re the one who is giving the oral. It’s hard for us to respond to direct, intense stimuli right off the bat. So tickle and tease a little bit. Maybe lick the head of your partner’s penis before you take him fully into your mouth. Or use your fingers on your partner’s clit before you start licking and sucking. Slow and steady wins every race — even when it comes to sex.

5. Listen And Look For Non-Verbal Cues.

Sometimes, in the heat of the moment, it can be hard for the person receiving the oral sex to speak up about what they’re feeling. That’s why it’s so important for the person giving the oral to listen and look for non-verbal cues. If your partner looks fearful or uncomfortable, stop and ask if they’re enjoying themselves, and then reassess from there. But if they’re moaning or breathing heavily? Keep doing what you’re doing.

6. Use Your Hands, Too.

If your partner has a penis, work their shaft in tandem with your mouth sucking on their head. It creates a longer surface of stimulation, which can be incredibly tantalizing to some. If your partner has a clit and a vulva, don’t be afraid to rub their clit with your thumb in between sucks. Or, insert a few fingers into their vagina while you’re sucking their clit, and massage their g-spot. It’s the spongy membrane on the inside of their vagina, directly under the mons. Use two fingers in a come-hither motion to slowly work this sensitive spot.

7. Moisture Is Your Friend.

Whether it be spit or lubricant, use a lot of it. Nothing kills the mood like sandpaper friction during sex.

8. Don’t Forget To Add Some Variety.

No one like the same movement over and over again. So, once your partner is properly worked up, change your technique a bit. Take your partner’s penis deeply into your throat (if you’re comfortable) and then quickly change to short, head-centric sucking. If your partner has a clitoris, alternate between tickling the sensitive spot with the tip of your tongue and sucking it. These variations in technique make for a seriously toe-curling experience.

9. Don’t Be Afraid To Give Directions.

Any partner who you have going down on you should be a partner you trust to take your directions as an adult — period. So don’t be afraid to tell your partner if something just isn’t working for you. You can do this in a sexy way so as not to break the mood. “Suck a little bit harder, baby” sounds better than “You’re not sucking hard enough.”

10. Remember — Orgasm Is Not The Goal.

In general, we all tend to be a little orgasm-obsessed. Oral sex is a great way to pleasure your partner without worrying about getting them off. So focus on the journey, and not the destination. Oral sex shouldn’t be a race to the finish, after all. Use it as a way to learn about your partner’s pleasure — and your own. It will make for a much more delightful experience. And if you do orgasm? Well, that’s just a cherry on top.

BRITISH MATURE SEX.

 

Best free adult dating sites and apps in the UK for guys on a budget.

If you’re not sure about which dating site you should sign up for (AKA spend money on) or which app to download, testing them out for free first is a great idea. But for some dating apps and sites, the free version may actually be all you need.

Online dating is hard, y’all — but so is dating in person. Basically, dating is just the worst. Until you find someone you truly vibe with, that is. Then dating is *the best.*

Our top picks AVAILABLE FOR SEX and SECRET AFFAIRS

They are also the best for chemistry.

Our top pick for the best free dating app with a desktop version is LUV MILF: Okay, we’re totally biased because of their sweet ad campaigns, but this site has it all.